Dec
9th:
still catching up on everything at home after returning from our
two weeks in Varadero. We flew back on the red eye on Tuesday,
climbed into our own bed at 6 a.m. and slept until noon before even
beginning to look at mail and email.
We stayed in a genuinely two star Cuban hotel called Mar Del Sur (be
careful how you say that!) near the centre of town - and had a
gas. There were shortages of essentials, maintenance issues, meal
buffets that made you shake your head, and a list as long as your arm
of things one could criticise, but we really enjoyed the sunshine, the
town and vicinity, the terrific beach and warm blue water, and the
Cuban people who were for the most part friendly, polite, hard-working
and professional - if a bit confused about what tourists would or
should expect, none of them from the managers on down having
experienced vacation resorts outside of their own borders. I'd
love to list the things we found silly or ridiculous, but that would
just be taking cheap shots without analysis of the history and
experience (or naiveté?) of the people, the continuing shortage
of resources, etc. The dual money system throws tourists for a
loop, and they resent paying such a high multiple of what locals pay
for goods and services, but it makes perfect sense economically, given
the subsidies in place for Cuban nationals to allay the effect of their
severely restricted salaries; I soon realized how unfair it would be
for foreigners to enjoy goods and services prices afforded by such
drastically low labour inputs. Theirs is a tightly managed
economy, and if we drove a financial wedge into it by being allowed to
pay local prices, we would drive up those prices and create inflation
that would bury the average Cuban national. Our vacation was
still very reasonable in cost compared to anywhere else we could have
chosen to go, and we got to hobnob with Cuban tourists, Russians,
Mexicans and a huge family of Miami Cubans visiting the old
homeland.
In short, we had a great time and I'd recommend it. We ran all
over the peninsula taking in simple local attractions, visited Matanzas
city and the Bellamar Cave system, went snorkeling, swam on the beach,
studied Spanish, drank beer, cheap rum and Cuban coffee at the bar, and
carefully selected the freshest and most appealing items from the
buffet offerings to make out our meals.
It
was
an
eventful
trip
in
other
ways,
too
- I spent my first full evening
in Cuba in a clinic ward, passing a kidney stone; had a few days of
water in my ear from snorkeling, and broke a tooth on a rabbit
bone...it all happens in threes, they say.
Our trip story is recorded in photos with captions, in
albums on Photobucket: general
vacation
photos, transportation
and
old
Cuban
(American)
cars, and few extra
architecture
photos. (Click on View Slideshow, and I
recommend Full Screen, and hitting the pause button so you can advance
manually, which gives you as much time as you need to read the
captions.)
Spanish turned out to be a fairly easy language to learn, especially
with a slight background in French. I spent an hour or so about
every second morning sitting at the poolside bar filling my little
black travel diary with verbs and vocabulary from Deborah and the two
animators Gleibys and Rainier, and Pablo the lifeguard, who had little
else to do all day beyond challenging me to games of ping-pong. Rainier
was convinced that I'd be fluent in eight weeks (in a couple of months
in Vienna one winter I picked up enough German to read most texts and
carry on a conversation in German on the streetcar on my way to the
airport, so I believe he is correct.) With their help, during the final
two days I capped my efforts with a letter to my parents. I
assume that my Dad, with his Portuguese background, may be able to
decipher this. Everyone else is welcome to give it a crack, too:
Queridos Madre y Padre
Aquí estamos en Cuba. Estamos en el Hotel Mar del Sur en Varadero. Al principio hemos
encontrado algunas cosas un poco extraño, pero pronto
empezó a conocer la cultura cubana y empezó a gustar. Los
cubanos son similares a los canadienses en algunos aspectos. Son puntuales todos los días, y el trabajo duro. Al igual que los
canadienses, que quieren mejorar su
situación económica, y mantener todo limpio y recién
pintado, dentro
de los límites de su capacidad financiera. Tienen un sentido de dignidad. Están orgullosos de su educación y de lo que han logrado en su sociedad.
Deborah y yo
hemos hecho nuevos amigos dentro y fuera del hotel. Nuestros profesores de español se Gleibys, Rainiero, y Pablo, un salvavidas. Fueron pacientes y amigable.
Hemos disfrutado
de la playa. Nos fuimos a nadar y bucear. Vimos las escuelas corales y de peces, incluyendo una escuela de Blue Tang. Había cientos de especies. Viajamos en el "autobús" en torno a la
península y también fue a Matanzas, donde descendió aproximadamente
un kilómetro dentro de la Cueva de Bellamar. Admiramos los colores y la configuración de la arquitectura de las casas y edificios en el estado,
y comimos comida local. Comimos arroz Congris, Maranga y conejos para el
almuerzo.
En Varadero se exploró la península, incluyendo el
museo y la "Mansión
Xanadú", la antigua mansión de
Irene Dupont. En el hotel jugamos ping-pong,
dardos y bingo. También se dirigió a Santa Marta, un pueblo cerca de Varadero. Me alegro de haber pasado dos semanas en lugar de
uno. Nuestras primeras impresiones no fueron buenas, pero ahora que hemos llegado a conocer a la gente, la comida y lugares de
interés cercanos, nos entristece a regresar a Toronto.
En estas dos semanas he tenido
la oportunidad
de aprender algunas palabras en español, como se
puede ver.
Afectuosamente,
Steve
Nota: Rainiero dijo que si
continuaba el
estudio durante
dos meses, voy a ser capaz de hablar español!
Nov
16th:
we've
just
returned from a very pleasant five days in Edmonton,
connecting with family
and celebrating Mom and Dad's 60th wedding anniversary. Dad's
chemo program had to be changed, and he was fatigued through the
weekend but showed remarkable stamina for his party.
There's an
interesting story about one of the drugs he takes: a friend and
colleague of my grandfather in Angola, Dr. Alan
Knight, was asked to provide some "thorny leaves" from an Angolan plant
to a pharmaceutical research company in the U.S. My uncle Ian,
who was 10 or 12 years of age at the time (he later became a doctor
himself and worked in the Congo, Sierra Leone, and finally the
North West Territories), went out into the forest and collected the
plants for him. The compound
derived from the plant was used to create dexamethazone, which gives my
Dad appetite and a boost of energy once a week. It is amusing to
note that this is also a popular drug
among prostitutes in Bangladesh, who take it because it boosts appetite
and makes them plump and attractive to their clients.
The trip home was interesting: on the way there I'd had to open every
part of my data projector and explain it to the security people, but
this time Deborah's purse came under intense scrutiny. They must
have had a test going on and thought someone was going to slip through
with secret contraband. They spent ages inspecting every tiny
item in her purse, dozens of items, and running the purse back through
the x-ray machine - and finally blamed it all on a plain-looking pen
that looked to them like it might have been a pen-knife in the
scanner. They said it might have been the angle of the pen in the
x-ray image. She also had a "full body massage", including boot
squeezing and bun squeezing - they were obviously looking for explosive
underwear...I had one too, but a little less intense - I guess she was
more appetizing - and I enjoyed mine, of course.
Then our departure was delayed ninety minutes
because there was a fuel pump that wouldn't shut off. We had to
disembark, move to another gate, and were flown out on a back-up plane.
Here we are now, back at home, which seems so empty now, devoid of
kittens...but quiet and comfortable, as we fall back into our little
routines; I made a fire right away, we had turkey soup and watched the
Big Bang Theory. We're waiting for a big rainstorm to hit this evening
with 40 millimetres of rain and 60 kilometre winds. Three days of
rain are forecast. On the bright side, it was minus eight in
Edmonton (with many centimetres of snow forecast in Calgary and
southern Alberta for today), but ten degrees above when we landed
here. I was back in my shirtsleeves all the way home.
Nov
10th: The kittens will go back this morning to get spayed and put up
for adoption. As I sit here with my morning coffee, five
half-sized cats and one playful full-sized mommy cat are racing and
wrestling like monkeys all over the house, leaping straight up
stiff-legged in the air in mock panic when they encounter each other,
and caroming from room to room like billiard balls. The
living
and
dining
room
look
like
the
movie
Jumanji.
Winter is closing in. Haven't seen any snow yet, but I mowed
the lawns yesterday for perhaps the last time this season, and ate the
last of my cherry tomatoes and green onions. The jalapeño
crop is bottled in vinegar. We've chainsawed and split a cord of
wood for the fireplace, cleaned the eaves of leaves, and put up the
Christmas lights. I've played my last scheduled tennis game, and
helped the rest of the executive take down the wind screens and nets
for the winter. We've attended our end-of-year Commodore's Ball
at Highland Yacht Club. Our bridge game is becoming more intense
as we gradually absorb the intricacies of bidding conventions week by
week. I have a little more time to read, but inevitably, our
thoughts drift southward as we dig
out
the
snorkeling
gear
and
swim
suits,
and
mentally
pack
our
suitcases.
October
31st:
I survived my week of bachelorhood. The worst part was
having the kittens decide that my chair was their favourite piece of
furniture in the entire house - whether I am in it first, or not.
They love to play "king
of the hill" on my lap, and wrestle each other off. And they have
a
new trick: they have suddenly acquired the size and agility to leap to
the top of the barricade across our bedroom door, dig their claws into
the top edge, and haul themselves up and over. This does not bode
well...
Here is Deborah's recent slideshow
of
kittens.
This past week has included our usual diversions, plus prepping our
cradle and our sailbat for haul-out. We've been up at six a.m.
for two mornings in a row. Yesterday I worked on the sling crew
on
the docks for six hours, placing the slings on each boat for the crane
to haul out and set on the cradles in the yacht club parking lot for
the winter. This morning we returned to the club to have our own
boat hauled. Flying sailboats - sort of like flying whales...it
never fails to impress. I should have a photo of my own boat in
the air shortly, which I'll put here in the diary.
One boat approached the lift dock with an elderly sailor on the bow,
and the owner at the helm. It had motor problems, and had to be
towed. One of our crew yelled out to encourage the owner to
correct his aim, "Engage your bow thruster, Bill!" The elderly
sailor on the bow called back, without missing a beat, "No can do, my
thrusting days are long over, I'm afraid!"
We attended a Hallowe'en party last night where creative adults
had amusing costumes of their own, in addition to dressing up their
progeny. My friend Kevin (the guitar player) was a human
breathalizer test machine with a strategically placed white tube.
The text above the tube said "blow here". There was an eyeball
piñata and apples on strings bobbing from a clothesline, for the
kids, and a chocolate cake with worms and five gory fingers rising out
of it. Tonight, of course, we'll be dropping bags of chips into
pillow-cases as the little trick-or-treaters in our neighbourhood make
the rounds from house to house.
October
18th:
Deborah
has left for a week with her mother and sisters in
Montreal, and I sit here with a lap full of kittens,
fighting for exclusive use of my keyboard, and back-spacing a lot when
I lose.
We've had an interesting last four days, including a trip to see a
third of the AGO, where our friend
Luanne Pucci manages the membership program. We actually went to
see all of it, but although we gave ourselves a full afternoon, our
time was sadly under-budgeted. It's a much larger, more
fascinating place than I'd imagined. We saw lots of cool stuff,
including Shary Boyle's often disturbing porcelains and a room full of
model ships. We'll go back in a few weeks to see some of what we
missed; I suspect that a solid three days will be required, in
total.
When the art museum closed we slipped up to the C-5 Compass restaurant
at the top of the ROM. That was a taste adventure, as you can see
from the menu on the web pages. Each item was quite delicious,
and the portions, although tiny, were impressively presented by one of
the city's top chefs. Unfortunately, although the architect
apparently tried hard to dress the room up, but it was still a fairly
institutional looking venue; my view was out the window, half of city
skyline and the other half unpainted roof-top ventilation machinery and
an unexciting roof-top patch of grass called, "Liza's Garden". One
might
have
assumed
that
the
chef
would
make
use
of
that
space
to
grow
fresh
herbs,
maybe
some
decorative
bushes,
and different colours and
levels of plants to make it visually interesting and give the guests
something to comment on, but there were none to be seen - unlike my own
garden,
which is still full of greenery.
The seating arrangement contributed to the "institutional"
feeling. They seated all of the first-sitting guests along that
bank of windows, maybe to afford us a view of the sunset, but no-one
seemed impressed with the view; and instead of turning sides of tables
parallel to the windows so that couples could each see, share and
comment on the view, they had every table placed perpendicular so that
one of each couple had their back to the windows, and it made you feel
like you were eating in a hospital cafeteria...not much thought went
into that. It places you side-by-side with strangers, reducing
your sense of privacy - a big turn-off if you're there for a romantic
evening with someone. There were lots of tables and few guests
while we were there, but they packed us into one section. It's a
big room, they could afford the space; and at those prices, they really
need to consider the gestalt, not just the food. We enjoyed the meals
we ordered, but we were glad we had a voucher to cover part of the
cost; three courses with a modest wine and you wouldn't escape for
under two hundred dollars, guaranteed. And there was still
something in the Dorset lamb dish - maybe the confit - that caused me
severe gastronomic distress at five a.m. the following morning, like I
haven't had for years.
There was no music.
We were glad we had the adventure, and our taste buds were impressed,
but it's unlikely that we'd make a repeat appearance.
October
14th: the madness mounts. As I settle into my easy-chair with my
early morning coffee, the Indy 500 begins in the living room in front
of me...five cars in the running. One of my shoes has been
wrestled across the living room floor, while its mate, less popular for
some odd reason, got left behind. We have blocked off our bedroom
for sanity, but when I step across the barricade, my bare ankle is
instantly embrace by the nerdy "flipper kitty" (the wide-eyed, big
boned one who couldn't walk on the hardwood when she first arrived),
with a purr so loud I can hear it from my tremendous altitude.
She fastens her embrace with the claws of both forepaws, of
course. She'd rather play with me and hug me than eat. The
three little jet black triplets are hopping and side-stepping in fury
at each other, with their backs arched like raised eyebrows and their
tails straight up in the air...perfect Hallowe'en kitties. Every
so often Mommy cat has just had "just about enough" of the five of
them, and squats somewhere with her tail twitching in fatigued
frustration, but of course, her twitching tail becomes an object of
intense fascination and it gets pounced on by a tag team of tiny
terrors - reminds me of the saying "I'm down to my last nerve, and
you're stepping on it!" They've learned how to climb up my pant
leg - or my bare legs, if I'm in my dressing gown - and occupy my lap
and chair with me, like radical protestors doing a sit-in at a
university office, but then they can't just sit, they have to show off
their moxie by trashing the place a bit; having tested their new teeth
on the shoelaces and stereo wiring, they now proceed to exercise a
wider bite by chewing on my knuckles and piercing my thumb pads with
their sharpest new teeth. They occasionally draw blood; the taste
of blood will probably make them more dangerous predators. I will be
their sole caregiver next week, while Deborah is in Montreal. I
can hardly wait. I wonder if she has any kitten recipes in her
vast selection of cookbooks...?
Deborah has taken a few photos this morning. I've posted eleven
of them for you: click on slideshow.
October
13th:
the kittens have
been
released
from
the
"nursery"
bedroom,
and
have
begun
their
reign
of
terror
in
our
house,
which
will
last
for
another
month.
They're learning to race down the hallway, climb the furniture, and
attack bare ankles in pack formation. They
are
now
-
after
two
weeks
-
as
old
as
the
first
batch
we
brought
home,
which
was
actually
already
the second batch if you
count
Deborah's mid-wife experience with the feral cat who still lives in our
backyard, and who brought her kittens up in our furnace room.
I've just attended my last meeting as Communications Director on the
Committee of Management of my yacht club, but I'll continue to
produce their newsletters. The latest one is here.
I've
agreed
to
be
reinstated
on
the
executive
in
the
role
of
house
league
convenor
at
my
tennis
club
-
something
Deb
and I used to do together in
years past. Beyond attending meetings, my role is to create
balanced teams and schedules for the season- eight teams on four
courts, sixteen games each week - provide balls for matches, organize
round robins, snacks and socials, and other details.
We've joined another choir - calls
itself a "jazz" choir, but is more pop than jazz so far,
and certainly no improvizational or "off-the-chart" singing, although
some of the written arrangements we're doing have some tasty moments of
sound. We've been attending bridge school one afternoon a week,
and playing in a retired teachers' bridge club another afternoon.
Still playing in the parlour band one evening a week, and pursuing
other interests. We'll spend a day at the Art Gallery of Ontario
tomorrow, followed by dinner at the very upscale Compass Restaurant in
the Royal Ontario Museum - they have a celebrated chef. The AMSF
investment portfolio has taken up a lot of my time recently, with some
major changes to holdings to be analyzed and decided on, and an influx
of money to be invested. These are the ways we stay so busy in
retirement.
Deb will visit her Mom and sisters in Montreal all next week, and we're
in the process of setting up a series of trips to distract us from the
cold in the coming months, punctuated by my dental implant and crown
appointments.

October 9th:
after turkey dinner for
eighty at HYC the day before, we had Sol and Marcy over for
thanksgiving dinner at home yesterday. I made a "harvest table"
centrepiece with a few squash and miniature pumpkins from our own
garden, collected in a rustic basket that Deborah made years ago, that
I usually use to collect produce from our garden. Today is my
birthday, so they gave me a nice card with a sailboat, seagull and
starfish...and a bottle of Grand Marnier. 
Deborah collected three carcasses and stayed up until the wee hours
making turkey soup. Click on her soup photo to see it up close -
see if it makes you hungry.
October
2nd:
One
of
the kittens had malformed back legs and a strange widened trunk;
instead of
walking on the hardwood like her siblings, she pushed itself along with
her back legs spread out like a frog. We've nicknamed her
"flipper kitty". We put down a large rug,
and she
began to improve once she got a decent grip on the floor with her
pads. Now she walks with her belly off the ground - not as
gracefully
as the others, and her feet are still a little splayed; but she has,
oddly enough, even more aggressive spirit and playfulness.
September
29th:
Yikes!
We
returned
the
three
kittens
and
their
mother
to
Toronto
Animal
Services
this
morning,
and
came
back
with
five
more
kittens,
and
their
mother...here
goes: another
month
of mayhem. But for now, these ones are still tiny, tottering
about with their eyes barely open like mouse-sized drunken
Lilliputians, so they're
no aggravation at
all. Yet.
The reason Deborah brings them home from Animal Services is this:
mothers stuck in a small cage with their litters are stressed.
They growl at the kittens; the kittens don't thrive as well, and are
underweight by the time they should be spayed and put up for
adoption. In our house the mother can escape from the litter when
she needs to, and visit us in the rest of the house. The kittens,
when they're old enough to leave the room we've blocked off as a
nursery,
have the run of the place and get tons of exercise, which in turn
improves their appetite, overall health and size. We handle them,
get them used to humans, and prepare them for their new homes.
And they are an
entertainment, to be sure.
Sept
27th:
we
have
finished
our
six
day
Habitat
for
Humanity
"retirees
blitz
build",
followed
immediately
by
Octoberfest
at
the
yacht
club
-
sauerkraut,
schnitzel
and
beer
Saturday
evening,
and
then
Deb worked the
"morning-after" breakfast shift at the yacht club on Sunday morning
from 8:30 until afternoon.
This week we're recovering, slowly emerging from our aches
and
stiffness. I cleverly taught myself to hammer with both hands, to
reach nails from every angle - with the result that now both hands are
sore and tight;
I might have a bit of arthritis. Deborah is planning
to continue building with Habitat a day or two a week, while I am more
likely to search out a volunteer situation playing or teaching music as
time allows - in seniors' homes, or maybe classrooms.
We took one day off in the middle of the week to attend a "champagne
brunch" for
retired teachers, and a Tafelmusik concert with Clare and Pat that
featured the chalumeau
(a baroque precursor to the clarinet) the evening of the same
day. And
on Friday evening we attended the elections meeting at the yacht club,
where I finally got to turn over my job as Communications Director -
after a two year stint - to someone else. Now we'll get back to
playing bridge and tennis, I'll get
my molar extracted tomorrow, we'll do house and yard chores, maybe
sail, I'll play music once my hands limber up again, and we'll plan our
escape from winter.

The
foster kittens go back tomorrow - not a day too
soon. No more returning to a house strewn with the contents of
every kleenex wastebasket, shoes dragged by their laces to random
locations, papers flung from the dining room table all over the dining
room floor; no more savage beasts chasing each other at full tilt the
length and breadth of the house, including across our bed long before
it is time to wake up, leaving me scarred and bloody from their little
claws inconsiderately digging into my cheek and forehead as they flee
from each other in constant fits of panic. I was beginning to
think I might have to start to sleep sitting up in my recliner to keep
my
face from being torn to ribbons, but on second thought, they sometimes
run up the back of my chair, where they grab my head with both claws so
that they can chew on my ears and the strap for my glasses.
Sept 14th: got my root canal done today - sort of...the
endodontist found a fracture in the tooth that extended down below the
gum line, about halfway through her
work, and closed it up. It'll have to be extracted, and an
implant and crown installed. Today was the fourth appointment in
this process, which looks like it'll stretch to ten appointments over
more than six months before it is all resolved. Sadly, even my
very expensive Manulife insurance, which I had taken to calling my
"Cadillac plan", won't cover implants - even when a bridge is
impossible in that location; and even though they normally cover
crowns, they won't cover a crown on an implant post. They won't
even pay what they would have paid for a cantilever bridge. To
add insult to injury, endodontist's have very fancy and expensive
offices, and charge through the nose, unlike my competent yet modest
storefront dentist.
September
12th:
traded
"Puff"
straight
across
for
"Apollo"
today
(already
named
by
the
kid
I
swapped
with,
who
was
thrilled
with
his
trade)...a
steel
string,
spruce-top,
made-in-China
dreadnought
acoustic
guitar,
"sunburst"
colour
style,
considered
a decent quality, easy to play,
entry-level student guitar. The sound is richer and fuller, and
it feels a little better than the electric. Barre chords are a
problem for me (fat fingers, perhaps), but if my hands can't overcome
that, I guess I'll just have to stick to the "cowboy frets".
September
7th:
Woke
up
to
three
fluff-balls
the size of chipmunks chasing
each other up and down the hall, emptying kleenex from the wire basket
and strewing it all over the bathroom floor...Deborah's
current crop of "foster-kittens" from the Humane Society.
This is the first day of school. Deb and I marked the occasion by
playing bridge all afternoon with retired teachers.
This morning I attended the second of a multi-appointment process of
seeing a endodontist
specialist for my impending root canal, which my own dentist isn't
comfortable doing himself because the root has a "double bend",
although he has done all my previous root canals.
"Frostbite league" tennis starts a week from today, and we're planning
to join a club sailing cruise to Ashbridge's Bay over
the Sept. 17th to 19th weekend. That's good, because we haven't
used our sailboat enough this summer.
We
have
registered
as
volunteer
construction
workers
for
the
Habitat
for
Humanity
Build
from
Sept.
20th
to
25th.
It'll
be
a
very
big
project:
29
homes,
a
thousand
volunteers,
across
from
my
Dad's
old
church
on
Kingston
Road.
We'll
be
parking
in
the
West
Hill
United
parking
lot
all
week.
It's
expected
to
look
like
this
when
it
is
finished:
September
3rd:
back
at
home
in Toronto, after six long weeks away. The ivy has tried to eat the house in our
absence. The squash has wrestled my raspberry canes to the
ground, invaded two neighbours' yards,
and claimed squatter's rights all across my back lawn; and there's a
strange new vine with pumpkin-orange ornamental
gourds growing across my front lawn. The red cana lillies and
yellow sunflowers worked nicely against the blue siding of the house,
but although the sunflowers were from a 2' dwarf plant, they grew to
twice the size of their parent plant - how does that happen?
Doesn't genetics mean anything, anymore?
Anyway, we're eating delicious beans
that have made many a meal for over three months for our neighbours as
well as ourselves, and they're still coming; also there are still some
tomatoes, the September raspberries (our canes give two rounds of
berries, one in July and one in September), lots of herbs for pesto and
other cooking adventures, and even a late strawberry or two...and lots
of squash. Even a good-sized romanesque zuchinni.
I
bought this fancy looking
painted
electric guitar, which came with a little black amp. It has
orange flames and a lovely green dragon;
I'm thinking of naming it "Puff". Is it "me"? Not
sure...but the price was right, and I
will spend some time learning more chords and songs each day to see if
I
enjoy this guitar, or if I should
trade it in for a plain tan-coloured acoustic with nylon strings. This one has steel strings and a narrower
neck than I'd wish, for the size of my hands, but it does look pretty
cool, in a Motley Crue sort of way...and the strings are easy to
depress, and the stretch for a G chord isn't hard. It might
actually hang around for a while.
We
got
adopted
by
a
young
red
tomcat
as
soon
as
we
returned
- looked like a
psycho cat from a cartoon, but had a very bold and friendly
personality; but
Deborah wisely delivered him to the animal shelter...only to return
with four more cats. She got talked into adopting a mother and
three kittens who didn't have enough room in their cage - "only for
three weeks!" - and they gave her all the food and paraphernalia she'd
need to be a foster mom, so they didn't have to twist her arm, not even
a little bit.
Lots of gardening and some
sailing days ahead. We have concerts scheduled, lots of friends
to get
together with, I'll get back to my
Thursday evening living room jam (which they often do now on a Sunday
as well, turning it into a BBQ party), and we will join a Tuesday
afternoon retired teachers' bridge club.
August
29th:
a lovely morning wake-up at Cass Lake, near Bemidji, in Stony
Point Resort, on our way home to Toronto after six weeks of great
visits with family, culminating in
the annual family camp-out. We gathered at the Wild Horse
campground, close
by the Ya-Ha-Tinda federal horse ranch, in the foothills near Sundre,
an area filled with elk (we stumbled into one herd two kilometres from
our campsite), deer, grizzlies and wild horses. 
We hiked up a
steep-walled canyon to a dramatic waterfall. Back in Edmonton, we
visited with Ian and Joyce, saw Lara once more, and racked Mom's
ginger-apple cider, made from the apples on the tree in her back yard,
before beginning
our drive back to Toronto. We made it out to Edmonton in three
thirteen hour days, but we'll relax and take five days or possibly six
to get home - gotta practice being retired, don'cha know. (By the
way, I think this car is the same vintage as Deborah...and look, it's
already pushing up daisies!)
August
14th:
Back in Edmonton now after a great trip to
the coast and back. We had a great visit with Kenton and
Sarah, and Lara in Vancouver, and Arnd, Stefanie, Silken and Una on
Salt Spring
Island. We didn't get to meet Bryn but I'm pleased to say that I
drank some of his excellent beer.
We did "family" things the whole time rather than "tourist" activities,
but that was fine with me because it was about our sixth visit to Salt
Spring and I've been visiting and sometimes living and working in
Vancouver so many times that I can't think of anything special I'd
still want
to see - although I can't find my way around the city
anymore. I guess it would come back to me if I hung around long
enough and looked at a map. These days Deborah watches the map while I
drive; we call her the "nag-ivator".
We took the southern route on the way
back, overdosing on spectacular scenery. We passed wineries and bought cherries and apricots at
roadside fruit stands. We stayed overnight at a campground in Osoyoos, which is pretty but the camping
sucks - packed in like sardines, expensive, too loud, lots of kids
allowed to stay up too late. I like working with a classroom full
of kids, but not camping next to that many. The locals claim the water in the lake is
like "a warm bath", but I found it decidedly cool. The tiny beach
isn't
up to Caribbean standards, and the swimmers competed with the Dads'
powerboats.
However, we were on the edge of Canada's
only desert. They call it a "pocket desert", and it
has scorpions, praying mantis, rattlesnakes, prickly pear cactus,
antelope brush - all the typical plants and animals you'd expect in a
desert. It's hot during the day but it was cool overnight. The view of the town and lake in the
valley was phenomenal as we drove up and
over Anarchist Mountain, where many private homes sport celestial
telescopes in their own observatory domes, looking upward rather than
down - the view must be "out-of-this-world" after dark -
there's
even an Observatory B&B that you can stay at and learn a little
about stargazing. We had a very pleasant drive to Rock Creek,
where we stopped at the Gold Pan Café for corn beef hash
breakfast, made with good, real corn beef slices, fresh bell peppers
and sour dough toast.
We stayed that night in Nelson, then
bathed the following morning at Ainsworth Hot Springs, which was
relaxing with a kick: spooky hot sauna
caves to wander through and linger inside. We visited the excellent Kettle
Valley museum, then took the Galena ferry at the top of the Arrow
Lakes. We cruised up along the side
of Kootenay Lake, stopping in Kaslo to tour the gorgeous S.S. Moyie
stern wheeler and learn about Gunpowder Gertie, the lady pirate of the
Kootenays - a true story and a fascinating bit of Canadian historical
romance.
Camping was great the whole way - a
smattering of rain during the days but none at night, and moderate
temperatures. We saw many deer, two elk, and a coyote who we
startled away from a deer carcass (road kill); we indulged in our usual
silliness on the road,
dreaming up clever ideas for cottages and businesses, and puns: we
passed
a pawn shop in Victoria and decided we'd open our own so that Deborah
could call herself
"Goldie Pawn"; drove past Yoho mountain and speculated on the merry
hooker who must live up there: the "Yoho ho"...
Next event is a family group camp near
Sundre: three days of chili and campfire singing and relaxing, and then
we'll be motoring home to Toronto, starting to consider how to spend
our winter, and continuing to speculate on how much longer Toronto will
be our home.
July
24th: in mid-July we left our tiny bungalow in the care of our street
of excellent neighbours - who are also mowing the lawns, trimming the
hedge and keeping up the garden for us, in return for our summer
harvest of produce. We have a wonderful Neighbourhood Watch on
our street, especially when they are motivated by the hundred
large
green
tomatoes
about
to
turn
red
as
I
drove
away,
not
to
mention
raspberries,
apple-sized
strawberries,
beans
and
other
treats.
We
drove
across
the
northern
U.S.
to
the
Saskatchewan
border
-
the
town
of
Portal,
great
name
for
a
border
crossing
and
for
a
band
-
and
up
to
Edmonton.
We
are
now
hanging
out
for
a
few weeks
with family and western friends. We'll probably drive down to the
coast - Vancouver and Salt Spring Island - in early August, and enjoy
our traditional annual family camp-out in the mountains on our way back
to Ontario.
July
7th: We are back home after a very long Canada Day weekend at the
harbourfront, where we lived aboard
Awelyn for five days while serving as Liaison Officers to the Unicorn
and the Playfair
during the Redpath Festival Tall Ships
Challenge.
This
was
the first Tall
Ships event held in Toronto since 1994, and it was a great
success. Our ships are both
training vessels for
young people; the Unicorn is strictly for young women, and has an all
female crew, Sisters Under Sail. You can view a slideshow of
the photos I took from the deck of the Playfair during the July 4th
Parade of Sail. Click on the photo of the tall ship to the right,
and then on "Slideshow" when you get to that page; use your F11 key to
give yourself a full screen view. I only have an old, small 2
megapixel camera, so the quality isn't wonderful, but the ships are
beautiful.
Last night we had a supper of fresh produce from our garden: romanesque
zuchinni and a plateful of our first crop of beans and peas - they
taste wonderful when they are freshly picked - and strawberries and
raspberries for dessert. The squash is growing, and the tomatoes
are large and abundant, but not red yet.
June
21st:
we
spent the weekend in the Muskokas, in the stomping
grounds of the G-8 but a few days before their arrival. We toured
the woods and the many falls in the area - a very beautiful part of
Canada - and stayed in Pat and Clare's brand new house. Apart
from that we're just continuing with our house-slimming, and spending
hours on meetings and email exchanges in preparation for the Tall Ships
weekend.
June
14th:
Highland Yacht Club's
Sailpast and
Salute to the Commodore took place on Saturday. We had a lovely
party and dinner, but the weather and lake conditions kept us confined
to the clubhouse and the docks - the Commodore cruised his sailboat up
and down between the slips to receive his salute, standing on the bow
of his boat looking like Mary Poppins in his yacht blue-and-whites,
under his black umbrella. Here's the video: Commodore's Salute
On June 9th, we attended Deborah's teachers' union retirement dinner at
the Old Mill - a pleasant, low-key event with good food and more free
booze than we could ever have imbibed in one evening.
We're absorbing the concepts of the Slow Movement. We've
been oriented in that direction
for some time, and even more so in retirement. Topics like downshifting, seachange and
treechange are now part of my reflective process. We
combine these concepts and stay within our geographic comfort
zone - we're downshifting in place, in our suburban bungalow, while
considering our next step, which may be one of several alternatives to
our current land-based abode.
June
5th:
The Ringing of the Bells. This week we attended our official TDSB
retirement reception. There were several nice speeches by departing
staff, culminating in the
traditional closing ceremony - they give each retiring teacher a yard
bell as a parting gift, and the retirees (over six hundred and forty of
them, this year)
stand and ring their bells all at once. It is an unforgettably
deafening, ear-splitting celebration.
May
30th: A live music weekend! On Thursday we enjoyed a four
piece
male a capella group called Cruisin'. On Friday evening we saw
Carol
King and James Taylor in concert at the Air Canada Centre,
courtesy of our friends Pat and Clare, who often take us to Tafelmusik
concerts, where they
have
the
four
best
seats
in
the
house:
front
row
balcony,
not
even
a
hundred
feet
from
the
Tafelmusik
orchestra.
On
Saturday
they
took
us
to
a performance of Handel's Israel in Egypt,
performed
by
the
Tafelmusik
orchestra
in
the
new
Telus
Centre
Koerner
Hall
-
a
beautiful
concert
hall
with
spectacular
acoustics.
We
take
them
out
for
dinner
before
the
concerts,
so
it
is
always
a
full
night
out.
On
Sunday
Deb and I went to see a sextet swing band. These four concerts
were quite a contrast of musical eras and styles, but
each fun in their own way.